July 6, 2009
Here’s the thing about grudges and grievances. Leave a grudge alone, you just might regret it later, when out of nowhere someone comes after you with a vengeance at the most inopportune time. So when is the best time to deal with a possible grudge or grievance? Right away. Don’t let wounds fester, and don’t let grievances grow. When you first suspect that someone has one about you, that’s the time to go bring that which is hidden to the surface, where you can actually acknowledge and deal with it.
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July 3, 2009
Ever had to deal with washy people who don’t follow through? Here’s how it goes. Someone makes you a promise, and you, counting on it, make a promise to someone else that depends on that promise made to you. And then nothing happens. Nothing except that you wind up looking like a flake.
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